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Post by milowent on Dec 6, 2006 22:37:58 GMT -5
Livevideo link (not yet on youtube) EDIT: www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmxhK16FMt4Cara goes 0 for 2006? She resolves not to! Hmm. Will it be Kirby, Cliff, Eddie (god no) or someone else? Its also amusing to watch Cara's obession with cleanliness continue to develop.
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Post by drquest on Dec 7, 2006 10:10:05 GMT -5
well she has just over 3 weeks to "get the job done"
lol milo come on eddie would not be that bad.
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Post by jayhenry on Dec 7, 2006 14:53:16 GMT -5
Now, I'm not a beautiful girl, and so I'm sure there are things I don't understand, but is it actually plausible that a girl like Cara would be unable to find a man?
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Jennifer
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Post by Jennifer on Dec 7, 2006 15:15:23 GMT -5
Yeah quite plausible I reckon.
Forming relationships is not just about how good you look. I think that's a myth pushed out by the advertising and movie crowd. Personality and confidence is much more important.
There's also a theory that beautiful people have trouble getting hitched with average people because the average person shys away not thinking themsleves good enough to make a move. This in turn affects the confidence of the good looking person.
However you look, if you have personality and confidence, you will suceed. But in the series, the Cara character has certain issues. We know she goes to therapy, takes medication, is overly motherly, has high standards, and has obsessive cleaning behaviours. Any of this could put others off. Combined with her high standards it means dating opportunities may be limited.
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Post by Joss on Dec 7, 2006 18:49:43 GMT -5
Wait wait wait!!
What do you mean by "to find a man"?
Jennifer has already assumed she wants a long term relation, marry, have children, so on..
When I watched the video what I understood is "So I'm absorved in my inner world and so focused on my inmature undeveloped personality I just wasnt available or ready to allow anyone to close on me.. But I just suddenly realized that Hey! I'm a woman too! And I have some other needs to cover.."
Or.. To make it short: How do I get laid without losing respect for myself.
I dont think she has any problem at all.. She probably has a lot of work keeping males a safe distance from her.. But she just cant get through her big trauma and that keeps her closed "for bussines".
Anyway.. I propose we all volunteer in the noho youtube to make her happy at least for this 3 weeks until new year.
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Post by Jennifer on Dec 7, 2006 19:01:40 GMT -5
I wasn't intending to assume she wanted a long term relationship. I was trying to interpret "finding a man" in the broadest possible sense. Whether it be for a one night stand or something longer I still believe you need that confidence to make the initial approach.
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